It is weird having to make decisions for two people. I believe coming from a single child household did not help. Growing up it was all about me. I could go where I wanted, buy what I wanted, and do what I wanted. I LOVE my wife! This has nothing to do with her and more to do with me. Even when I had my “freedom” what did I do with it? I would drink Mountain Dew and play video games. Not to different from what I do now, EXCEPT its all about Dr. pepper now. So why is it so different? In reality it is not, but when you look closely you can see the true culprit! YOURSELF! Now you have someone to care for. You can not play games and masturbate all day with not a care in the world! Now I have to pull a Mission Impossible to even touch the little guy. The secret is patience, because eventually everyone has to fall asleep.
Your significant other depends on you and relies on your company. So this is the real reason it is so different from the old days. It will only change more when my first child is born! I know it will be a great day, but as soon as that baby touches down I am that babies forever. Its hard to figure out what I am suppose to do. I want to do what I want, but what my wife wants is also what I want. So I always try to read or play games while she watches her shows or does crafting. I have got attached to her shows so that does provide a nice space of time for us to hangout.
One more thing that is hard to come by is friends. Friends that you both like and could see hanging out with your children. It is not about partying and who is the most fun. Its about actually being able to speak with them and hang out for more than a night. You want them to be able to hang out with your children, and be responsible. Thats LAME! I do not want someone that can take care of my kid. THAT IS A BABYSITTER! I can pay the babysitter and THEN go hangout with my party friends right? I guess I will let you know in about a year and a half.
I never EVER thought I would not need sex. Growing up it was all about sex…and still is. Sex goes through every mans thoughts about every 52 seconds. That is a lot of imagination! So when your wife says you have no imagination you can just smile. The fact still remains that sex is NOW in the back of my brain. That also means men can multi-task LADIES! I find myself positioning myself sometimes in a way that makes it nearly impossible to cuddle or get close in bed. That way when she is all hot and bothered she cannot penetrate my defenses. It is not that my wife is not sexy! In fact writing this I have thought of her naked about 10 times. Mathematics would suggest I have spent around 10 minutes so far on this blog. The thing is that I do not have to fight for sex anymore! I think I just figured that out as I wrote it. It is not a hunt. When I am in the mood, and she has nothing better to do, we do the nasty. In High School since we thought about sex all the time and did not get it, we hyped it up. THEN when we finally got it we could not stop. It was a horrible circle. I believe this blog just might help the Ladies afterall. As much as we like sex maybe make us wait for awhile. That should not be to hard for you girls;) So if you have learned anything from this I hope it is that men cannot stop thinking about sex and its not our fault!
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